Wednesday, April 30, 2008

Here chicky, chicky........

This is Ashlyn's cousin Kayla playing with their new baby chicks. Actually, they aren't so new anymore, I just didn't get them posted very soon.





Here is a photo of my troops with the same chicks when they spent a day with Grandma and Grandpa. My sister has been having some problems with the chickens pecking each other. She has tried several different things and finally just had to separate them.

I think she has 3 different types of chickens and they don't seem to like each other. If anyone has advice I can pass it on. I know nothing about chickens except they taste good battered and fried.

Tuesday, April 29, 2008

Ashlyn Victoria Eileen.

Yes she has a very long name. It took 8 years to get her and I was afraid she would be an only child. I wanted to honor both of her Grandmothers. Victoria is Lance's mom's name and Eileen is my mom's middle name. If I had only known we were going to have 2 more girls, Ashlyn would have been spared the agony of learning to write 4 names before graduating Kindergarten.


Ashlyn with one of Aunt Sarah's baby chicks.
She was born on April 2nd and I was able to breathe a sigh of relief when the clock struck 12:01am on this day. Not because that was when she was finally born, I had 15 more grueling hours to go.....of back labor, mind you. I just knew that I really didn't want my baby to be born on April Fools Day.




With her best pal and cousin, Kayla.

I have loved every minute of raising Ashlyn. Ok.......all but about a few hours here and there. She was a very easy baby and made me look like the best mom ever. I love to listen to her talk. She is a riot with some of the things she comes up with. One of my biggest fears while I was pregnant with my trio was that I was taking something away from Ashlyn by having 3 babies, at once, when she was still just a baby herself. After seeing how she has responded over the past year and a half, I know she is going to be fine. More than fine. For being 3 she has a lot figured out and has a very caring personality. No she isn't perfect and has her bouts of jealousy and impatience. I know that she has done something to hurt one of them when I hear crying and she says "I think I will go sit in time out".



With our cat Alex.I actually think she has made raising triplets a little easier. God knew what he was doing when he put her first in line. When I have a bad day, she brightens my spirit. She makes me giggle.



Making me a spot of tea.

She loves to help me with dishes, laundry, and baking. She still loves babies even though you'd think she'd be sick of them by now. I see her having a litter herself some day.



Can you guess what she is doing? Singing "Old McDonald".Is it sad that I'm already thinking about how much I'm going to miss her when she graduates from high school and moves away? Maybe that's why teenagers are meant to drive you crazy. So you miss them a little less when they leave.The name Ashlyn means natural. She is a natural, isn't she?

Sunday, April 27, 2008

Things........

Things I DON'T miss about being pregnant with triplets:

-just finding a comfortable, semi-reclined position, and having stomach acid force it's way into my esophagus.

-trying on the biggest clothes I can find, and even they don't fit.

-having to move the seat of my van all the way back before I get in just to fit behind the steering wheel ( I know, I shouldn't complain about that one, at least I was still able to drive).

-having to spend months sleeping on the sofa bed because I couldn't get into my bed.

-having to use a chair in the shower because just the simple act of washing my hair while standing was enough to wipe me out for the rest of the day.

-feeling like I never had enough oxygen.

-having to pee every 10 minutes, literally, then dragging myself off the couch, I could barely fit on the toilet anymore, then trying to wipe with a gargantuan belly. Just picture it.

-feeling like I was so starved I could eat half a cow, and then taking 2 bites, and I was too full to eat anymore.

-having my legs go to sleep after sitting at my computer for 5 minutes.

-constant motion of 3 little bodies day and night. There was never a moment that all 3 were sleeping.

-people in public thinking I was that huge and only expecting one baby.

-constant back pain.

-contractions for 21 weeks.

-after applying 2 ointments and an inch of moisturizer to my belly it still itched so bad I was tempted to scratch it with a fork.

-taking a sleeping pill and 2 Benadryl every night and still not being able to sleep.



Things I DO miss about being pregnant with triplets:

-3 sets of feet playing footsie.

-someone was always moving. There was never a dull moment.

-being able to eat anything I wanted and not feel guilty. It helped make my babies big and fat.

-I didn't hear any crying.

-I didn't have to worry about changing, feeding, or bathing them.



Notice my "DO" list is much shorter? It was a very difficult journey but worth every second.

To all you other multiple mom's out there, what was your most agonizing moment?

Here's a challenge.....I want to see some belly pics of all of you too. If you post one on your blog let me know so I don't miss it.

Friday, April 25, 2008

8 Months Pregnant.

I just came across this photo while looking for pictures of Ashlyn as a baby. Here I am pregnant with her and 8 months along. Wearing regular, non maternity, jeans 2 sizes bigger than I wore not pregnant. And I thought that I was uncomfortable.Here I am pregnant with the triplets and eight months along. I'm wearing stylish sweatpants that don't even come close to covering my belly. Couldn't tell you the size. I was popping out of XL maternity shirts I know that. This was taken the week before I delivered them. Can you say "back ache"?
I know I've posted this one before but I've never compared it to my first pregnancy.

It's begining to look a lot like.......Christmas???


This is the view from my front step. I can't remember ever getting snow this late in April. Dorinda, do you still want some?? I could send a whole truckload if I could keep it cold.


We were planning on building a deck this weekend.

Brooke Elisa.

She is baby C of course. She was on my right side with her butt under my ribs. Every ultrasound for the last few months she had her face buried in my hip. She has been making up for all she missed, ever since.


She was the longest to stay in the hospital because she was the slowest to take to eating. She still is the least interested in eating so I don't think she really needed the extra week. I think the only reason I let her stay that long was because I was dead tired.


I haven't forgiven them for almost letting her die. I have a lot of respect and appreciation for the hospital where my babies were born, but there was one morning in particular that still haunts me. I had been holding Brooke while she was receiving her tube feeding. It was almost done and Lance and I wanted to go up and shower before visitors started coming. The nurse said I could lay her down on her side she would check on her in a few minutes. I went to see Gaby and Ryan (they were in a room next to Brooke) and give them a quick kiss. The nurse that morning was from the Pediatric dept and just filling in from the night shift. She was busy trying to move Ryan from his Bili bed to a regular crib before the next shift came in.


Thinking of this moment still gives me the chills. Lance and I stopped one more time to check on Brooke before going up. Even though the room was dark, I could tell that something wasn't right. Her skin tone looked extremely dark. I walked up to the crib and touched her. She didn't move.


Meanwhile the alarms are all going off (which happens quite often in the NICU and usually means a lead is off somewhere so you kind of get used to it not being important) and where was the nurse? They are trained to always come running, just in case. After all, these babies are in critical care!! I sent Lance to look for her and I was jiggling her and calling her name. Even though I am a nurse, I was so paralyzed by fear at seeing my own baby in this condition that I didn't have a clue what to do.


God was there.


Lance found the nurse, going down the hall away from our baby with all the alarms going off. She came in and thumped her on the back which made her cough up a bunch of formula. Then she suctioned her with a bulb syringe. She had a ton of it up her nose and in her mouth. THEN other nurses started coming in. Our nurse turned to one and said, and I quote "this one was very naughty, she was a close as she could get, she was just black". That's something every mother wants to hear.


We made lots of complaints that day to every staff member that would listen and that nurse never touched any of our babies again. The only thing I can thank God for was the fact that when she did come, she did exactly what needed to be done. Review of the monitor said either she didn't have a pulse, or wasn't breathing, for 60 seconds. I can't remember which, it all happened so fast and I was exhausted.


That was a very traumatic day for me. I cried a lot, worried that she would have brain damage. I should have known Brooke was stronger than that. After I showered I went back to see her. I picked her up and settled into a chair. She immediately looked right at me and half smiled and made a coo sound.

17 months later, she is doing this. These are clean, by the way.






Maybe potty training is around the corner. She weighs about 20 lbs, soaking wet. She is a tiny thing and when you pick her up you feel like you could snap her arms right off. I was concerned about her size but she continues to thrive. She has been the 1st one to reach every milestone. It won't be long and I'll have to peel her off the ceiling. She is very smart also. I've noticed that she understands most of what I tell her. The fact that she tends to ignore me is beside the point. What would I do without this sweet little face.


More of Ashlyn's photography. She's getting better. If we look really tired in these photos its because we are. 3 teething babies is so much fun.Brooke's name means sophisticated which I think fits her. She does have a silly side too, though. Her middle name was Lance's Grandma's middle name.



She is a thumb sucker which I hope doesn't cause her problems later on. Ashlyn would have been one but we were diligent about replacing her thumb with a binky. With Brooke we were too tired to notice she was even sucking her thumb until she was past the point of preventing it. We were just glad she was quiet. She is very independent but also loves to come and cuddle when she needs some quality time. To some people, Brooke acts very shy (or screams bloody murder) such as with my sister and sister-in-law, much to their dismay. It usually seems to be very normal looking people. Then when she sees someone like my dad, who has a scruffy beard and is much bigger than she is (not saying your not normal looking, dad) she runs right to him with open arms.


She also loved my brother when he visited from Texas (once again, not that there is anything wrong with your appearance) who shaves his head and also has facial hair of some sort. Does that mean she will be attracted to bad boys? She seems to like danger. I can feel the gray hairs popping up as I type.



I have to add that the other nurses at our hospital took exceptional care of our babies. Especially you, Mindy. Mindy had the most contact with our babies and we still keep in touch with her. She now has a baby of her very own named Denver, and you can read all about him here.

Thursday, April 24, 2008

Ryan Lance.

I had to add this photo that Ashlyn took last night. She cut of his head but it's still pretty good. We may have a photographer in the making.Ryan was baby B and he was transverse across my stomach on the left side (toward the end anyway). You could see his little heels kick back and forth across my belly and pop out my belly button. He was the most active while I was pregnant and we had a sneaking suspicion that he was a boy from the very beginning. He was always acting up for the camera when we had ultrasounds. We didn't know the sex of any of our babies because we wanted to be surprised.

He is 17 months old and weighed 4 lbs 11 oz when he was born. He was the smallest and had to be under the Bili lights for a few days. He now weighs 26 lbs and he loves to climb.Of all my children, he is the worst sleeper. He has been the one to wake us up the most. He prefers his daddy to come in and rub his back. At this very moment, while the girls are napping, he is in his crib trying to take his shirt off.


He is daddy's boy. He loves to snuggle with him and really resembles him. This is a photo of Lance when he was a baby. I can see Ryan in many ways.They are the only 2 in our family with blond hair and blue eyes. Ryan has his daddy's name for a middle name. We picked his first name because we wanted something Irish to remind him of his paternal grandfather's heritage. He loves to eat. I haven't seen him turn down much of anything.I enjoy the controversy over Nature vs. Nurture especially raising a set of triplets. I don't try and influence them in any way. To see an only boy become a "boy" all by himself is quite hysterical at times. He hisses at baby dolls but loves trucks, dirt, mud, and digging. He does have a slight feminine side though. He can be very soft hearted, he doesn't like bugs, and he will fight with the girls over pink, glitter, and ruffles. This drives Lance crazy because he would like him to be in camouflage 24/7. He also loves to vacuum but probably because it has a motor. He will definitely do something mechanical some day because he is obsessed with anything that requires batteries, has buttons to push, or makes noise.
Ryan is usually the least shy around strangers. It's pretty easy to get him to smile or giggle.

Monday, April 21, 2008

Green Pancakes???

In an attempt to get my 3 year old to eat better I've come up with a few tricks:
The first, is food coloring. You can add it to most anything. I, of course, hope that it won't be added to the list of carcinogens in the future. I know there has been some attention paid to red dye #3 but I believe that was banned by the FDA. Since they are still making the same stuff in the same box that I ate as a kid, I feel safe feeding it to my children. Hmm....maybe that's what's wrong with me?Now it also comes in Neon and has a chart on the back to mix different colors. Fun!! Since Ashlyn is the picky eater at the moment, and the only one that can talk clearly, she gets to pick the color. So far we've tried green, blue, and purple pancakes. We've also had orange french toast. I'm sure there are many more options that I haven't yet tried. I don't want to get too carried away in case the babies stop eating because they don't recognise what is put in front of them.


I have a couple other tips that I don't have photos of:


The second tip is funky straws. There was a time that I was worried Ashlyn wasn't drinking enough fluids so I bought a pack of reusable crazy straws for a dollar. They were a huge hit and lasted quite a while. Since I am a recovered germ-a-phobe, I tossed them after a while because I was worried they weren't getting clean enough. Since then, I keep on hand a supply of colored bendable straws. They are disposable and I plan to keep a couple in my purse to use at restuarants where they are too cheap to supply bendable straws for kids drinks. If you've ever tried to get your small child to drink out of a milk carton or glass without a bendable straw, you know what I'm talking about.


The third tip is cutting things in shapes. I purchased a sandwich cutter after Valentines Day that is shaped like 2 hearts (it was really cheap). I have used this so many times. I use it for sandwiches and sometimes toast because it cuts the crust off (Ryan throws his crust on the floor) and also makes cute little hearts.


Also with the pancakes, Ashlyn loves her's made into Mickey Mouse and with sprinkles on top. I just pour one big round circle with 2 little circles attatched for ears. Then I add a few sprinkles before I flip it.


Any other picky eaters out there?? I could use a few more good tips.

Friday, April 18, 2008

Procrastination.

This is my project for today. Our back porch is STILL loaded with stuff not unpacked from our move here in December. Just what is taking me so long, you might ask? Well this blog for one thing(my one hobby while the kids are napping).

Not to mention 3 little ones in diapers and a 3 year old that likes to help, but doesn't really help, instead makes things take even longer. That's why I titled it Procrastination. Something I'm very good at. But, today, I sent the kids off to Grandma's and I will tackle this once and for all. As soon as I finish this post.

I intend to make it into either a play room, which the kids would love, or our bedroom and Ashlyn can actually have a real bedroom, instead of sleeping in the hallway.

Then we have to spend money because it is a real porch and not weatherized. I will post after pictures and you can see what we decided to do.

Gabriella Mae.

Since Gaby missed out on the last post, I decided to make this one about her. Eventually I will have a post about each child, individually. That way you can get to know them a little better. Some of you may already know her but you can read it for fun.I added this photo of Gaby in the hospital. Gaby kept the nurses hopping. When she wanted something, she let you know it. They nicknamed her the drama queen.Gaby is 17 months old and weighed 6 lbs at birth. She now weighs about 25 lbs give or take depending on what she had for lunch. She was baby A and made my life pretty miserable for the last couple months of my pregnancy. OK they all did. I named her Gabriella because it means "God is her strength" and I feel like she deserved it, keeping them all in, even though her brother and sister were on top of her. I had contractions 5-10 min apart for weeks but did not dilate at all. Her middle name is my Grandma's middle name. Gaby is the most shy around strangers, but, usually if you put something between her and the "scary person", she will turn into a little ham. Just the other day my dad came over and she wouldn't even look at him. I picked her up and stood between her and Grandpa, and then she reached over and poked at his beard and even gave him a kiss. She is also my kissy baby. She will walk over and pucker up at any given moment. Melts my heart every time. She is the best sleeper, best eater (except occasionaly some vegetables), and is usually pretty content. She is also the most soft hearted. She rarely gets in trouble and when she does, she starts to sob like you broke her little heart. I can't stay mad at her for long. She is also the goofiest. She makes the funniest faces, and when she laughs, she has this deep chuckle that comes from her belly.


She loves playing with hats, mittens, shoes, and socks. She does get confused with which goes where. She usually tries putting her mittens on her feet.
She has less photo's on her post than Ryan and Brooke but she has a video and they don't.

Wednesday, April 16, 2008

Call it genetics.

I can't even ask where my kids get their crazy personalities. I can take credit for half anyway.

This is Ryan climbing on a chair.
This is me climbing on a chair.
This is Ashlyn with a chocolate face.

This is me with a black licorice face. This is Brooke in a drawer.


This is me in a drawer. I couldn't find one of Gaby posing like any of my photos......yet. The search continues. I'd say that means she doesn't act like me, but I know that isn't true.